May 2013
13 posts
haughtyhoundstooth asked: I've never heard top/bottom having to do with oral sex preferences. I don't think it's used this way, but I could be wrong.
Anonymous asked: I want to prepare for bottoming. What hair removal is the best besides shaving? I have a very hairy bum. I need help.
Anonymous asked: Hi, I'm a gay guy currently looking for a relationship in my local area and I'm pretty new to the scene. And thru the social media like Grindr and Scruff I found out people kinda knew their own preference (top/bottom/versatile). Is that weird I really have no clue which one please me much?
Q #1: "What does your family think?" →
Family reactions to coming out as transgender vary from one extreme to the other. Â Some families are very open, accepting, and supportive. Â Others go so far as to disown and kick out their transgen…
Anonymous asked: Hello! I'm a bisexual cis girl in a relationship with a genderqueer bi lady. We're looking to try anal sex (me receiving) but she's pretty mess-phobic and I want to make this as pleasant for both of us as possible. What's the best way for me to prepare myself and get clean and also to start without it being painful?
Anonymous asked: I have a crush on my bestfriends sister? What should I do? I don't wanna lose an amazing friendship and/or not get the girl of my dreams
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How important is it to use a dental dam for women having sex with women? Can cold sores (oral herpes I suppose) be passed to a partner’s genitals? —Anonymous
Cold sores or oral herpes is caused by the herpes simplex-1 virus (HSV-1), which is different from the virus that causes genital herpes (HSV-2).
The most important thing you should know:
HSV-1 can be transmitted from mouth to...
Anonymous asked: How important is it to use a dental dam for women having sex with women? Can cold sores (oral herpes I suppose) be passed to a partner's genitals?
Also, I’ve noticed several typos in my responses and such. My apologies if they’ve caused any confusion, especially for my international followers. My computer’s autocorrect is pretty subtle when it comes to replacing misspelled words. In fact, I just caught one now as I was re-reading this post for a third time.
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I’m on medical leave from work this week (minor injury, on the mend) and working on two or three projects to keep from going stir crazy—QSE being one of them.
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Anonymous asked: Basically it's a difficult story, but I'll try to explain it as short as I can.. Basically me and my ex girlfriend found each other as a perfect soul-mates half year ago. We had lots of fun.. Last two weeks of our relationship we started to feel tension even though we were spending everyday together.. Then on our half year anniversary she revealed me a secret nobody knows, she's...
Anonymous asked: So me and my best friend for the past three years recently decided to date, it's early in our relationship and she's already taking forever to text back and being short when she does, we also made plans for this weekend and she's continually saying she doesn't know if she can, that's been going on for like four days, do you think she just doesn't want to hang out...
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Qs About the T →
What is Qs About the T?
Qs About the T began as a workshop in 2008, as a means of introducing terminology and subjects related to trans* and gender-variant identities to queer and trans* allies. It has been presented at conferences and colleges as a means of exposing LGBT and queer allies to various issues affecting the trans* community. It has been well received at conferences such as the...
April 2013
31 posts
Anonymous asked: How can I convince my girlfriend that she should not feel embaressed around me? I do all of the proper things I should do when someone is uncomfortable with thier body.. I just Dont know why she is still uncomfortable
Anonymous asked: I'm married and have a two year old. I'm in my mid 20s but have been attracted to girls for probably ten years. I think that I may leave my husband some day. I don't have anyone to talk to. I live in a town of like 1000 people so I don't think I even know anyone who's gay. I just wish I had someone to talk about this with.
Anonymous asked: What is cis?? I am curious about different genders and sexualities... I never heard cis before.
Anonymous asked: I'm gay and I'm in love with one of my friends but I don't know if he's gay or straight. He never talks about the kinda people he's attracted to. I really like being his friend and I don't want to wreck our friendship. Should I tell him how I feel?
Anonymous asked: What are the ways to transmit chlamydia from female to female?no I do not plan on infecting anyone with a std. I was told it is not possible
Anonymous asked: for the previous anon; they should look into the different levels of attraction (aesthetic, romantic, sexual, etc) and that may help them view their sexuality through a different lens. for example, i identify as a lesbian, but i experience aesthetic attraction for men and occasionally even romantic attraction, but no sexual attraction. so i tell people i'm gay, but sometimes if i want to...
Anonymous asked: I'm a girl, very attracted to girls, I find men attractive but not sexually at all, what should I tell people when they ask whether I'm bi or straight?
Anonymous asked: Do you know if pumping my clit will cause any harm? I'm a trans man taking T
Anonymous asked: I'm pansexual but I've never had a girlfriend and that's all I want right now.. Do you think ill ever find one?
Anonymous asked: My partner gets anxious when we start to become more intimate. We both have anxiety and we are not that experienced, but I'd love to become more intimate. Any suggestions?
Anonymous asked: Can a girl be totally pleased by another girl?
Anonymous asked: I'm going on holiday soon but I'm scared I will want to masturbate is there anyway I can do so quietly ?
Anonymous asked: I love to masturbate but I can only get pleasure by rubbing my clit is there a way I can get pleasure by puting my fingers inside me? I've tried before by puting one in and puting it in and out repeatedly but I can't seem to get pleasure !
Anonymous asked: Is it wired. To bleed after sex
Anonymous asked: This is the same girl with the masturbation problem. What might be wrong? Sorry I just don't like to go to doctors unless its crucial and I just want to know why I would need to go to the obgyn with a masturbation problem...?
Anonymous asked: im a girl and whenever I try to masturbate I get this sharp pain in my vagina and I honestly can't get any further, not just out of pain but like, LITERALLY. Theres like a wall or something like my finger doesnt fit. I've found other ways of getting off but maybe you can help me understand what the actual heck is happening?
Anonymous asked: How to clean before sex
Anonymous asked: I was wondering can you be in a monogamous relationship (both of us are guys) and not have to use a condom ?
Anonymous asked: Does anyone have a recommendation for trans friendly electrolysis in Memphis tn area
Anonymous asked: how does it work
Anonymous asked: How go I explain to my boyfriend that being bisexual does not mean I want to date him and someone else at the same time? I am an extremely loyal person and I don't think he understands that I like both boys and girls. How do I explain?
Anonymous asked: I recently found Acyclovir in my lover's cabinet and was a little shocked because she has never mentioned anything to me about carrying the herpes simplex virus. We are both cis-female and have been having fluid-bonded, no-barrier sex for almost 3 months. I know that the risk of transmission in between outbreaks is low, but how low? & how can I bring this up without shaming her for not...
Short Film About Safe Sex For Trans Guys
transqueery:
Avec Toi, J’en Mets Pas is a short film directed by bruce for the French LGBT site, Yagg, about safe sex for trans guys who have sex with cis men. The film is in French, with English sub titles by M’hamed Rahli. Avec Toi, J’en Mets Pas was created for Yagg’s Tu Sais Quoi? campaign promoting condom use to protect against HIV, STIs and hepatitis. This video contains mature scenes.
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getlusty asked: Hello, we are a newly launched website called GetLusty For Couples founded in Chicago, centered on sex and relationships. After extensive research we have compiled a list of blogs to feature on our website. This note is to inform you that you and/or your organization have been selected to be featured in an article on our website. We hope you come check out our website getlustydotcom Thank you for...
Birth Control Recall - Canada →
stfusexists:
stfuprolifers:
being-lola-star submitted:
Not sure how many Canadian followers you have but I thought you might be able to help get the word out. There’s an urgent recall on Alysena-28 birth control pills which may have too many placebo pills, which could result in unplanned pregnancies.
Here’s more info.
Anonymous asked: My best friend and I have feelings for each other, so we've secretly been dating/sleeping together for a while. We finally told our roommate how we feel and she is not supportive at all. I understand why someone would be uncomfortable living with a couple, but we've all been close friends for a long time, we wouldn't have sex while she's home, and honestly she's been a 3rd...
Anonymous asked: Hi! I'm a lesbian cis girl, and I'm simultaneously terrified of and fascinated by the idea of actually having sex. Some background: I used to cut, and even though I've recovered I'm extremely body conscious. The thought of actually being physically vulnerable around someone else is enough to make me want to hide. Is there any way to become less scared about the idea of being...
Anonymous asked: My girlfriend has been hinting at sex lately, but I'm trans and not comfortable enough with my body. She knows this. Is there something I can do for her without having to undress or be touched?
Anonymous asked: I've tried a lot of things, but I can't ever get myself off. What's up with that?
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March 2013
7 posts
ae-marie asked: Hi, I'm a bi-cis-girl but I find the idea of gender play appealing and have used a strap-on before. I saw your posts answering FTM questions about using strap-ons to orgasm and you mentioned the importance of perception & how some ppl may need coaching. Where would I find information about that sort of thing? On top of my interest in gender play, I find it nearly impossible to orgasm...
Anonymous asked: You answered a question about a trans-man who can't get off with a strap on, and you mentioned that there are people who can orgasm from perception. I'm another trans-man and I can't do that. Am I just defective or something?
Anonymous asked: Have you ever heard of anyone who is more attracted to penises than they're attracted to men? I class myself as a bi male, but I know I'm more attracted to a guy's penis than the actual whole guy (this is why I'm really attracted to trans women who haven't had their penis removed too). I don't think a lot of people understand this, but I've known other people to...
Anonymous asked: I'm an ftm guy with a question. Every time I'm penetrated (no matter what with) I get this weird pain. It's like this deep, burning pain but it's right at the entrance of my anus. I don't understand it. It's like I'm hitting something that's connected to that, but that doesn't make sense? It's only about 2-3 inches in that I feel it and it takes...
Anonymous asked: Ok so I'm a trans man- pre everything. I don't understand how I can get off by 'jacking off' with a strap on. I pretend its real. But it's not inside me. It's not touching anything really. So how can I get off?
Anonymous asked: I'm straight but when I masturbate I watch lesbian porn and I love it. It's one of the only ways I can get off by myself. What does this mean?
