Anonymous asked: i was talkig to my bf (he's f2m, we're in a LDR) bout sex & we got on the topic of what its gonna b like for us because he'll be the giver & i'll b the receiver (which neither of us have a prob w/) but i started talkin bout how i wish i could do smethin to him like grope him which he wants me to do, but is also uncomforable with the idea because he thnks that if i (a straight girl) groped him, itd b 'changing my sexuality 4 a night'. how do i make him belief hes wrong?
Well, for starters, you can’t make him believe anything.
That being said, participating in sexual activity with someone who was assigned female at birth does not “change your sexuality.” It means you are participating in sexual activity with them. That’s it. A person who identifies as straight is straight, regardless of what body parts their partner has. Same goes for someone who identifies as a lesbian. Your partner’s body does not determine your sexual orientation anymore than they determine your gender identity. You are who you are no matter what.